March 2010
February 2010
- 26: on learning how it feels
- 23: a leap of faith (and love)
- 22: a bit more on being a femme sans butch
- 17: the threads that make my tapestry
- 16: you got me at “lezzy”
- 12: “it’s undeniably true: I’m irresponsibly mad for you”
- 12: “strapon,” “strap on” or “strap-on”?: a grammatical elucidation
- 08: things to like about February
- 06: inhabiting my body
- 01: Music meme!
January 2010
- 29: markers of queer femme
- 27: my new (internet) home
- 20: rainy season!
- 18: allyship: that post I've been sitting on all week
- 12: defending my version of femme
- 03: love, meds, and femme-ininity: 2009 in review (and some ideas for 2010!)
December 2009
- 30: may this fantasy soon be a reality
- 27: would you like some heteronormativity with your turkey?
- 20: "but they're not my girl"
- 17: bringing sex out of the bedroom
- 14: in which I take after my mother
- 09: note to mi'lady: DO NOT READ THIS POST if you want to be surprised on Christmas.
- 04: difficult decisions
November 2009
- 30: one year
- 24: "It's the most wonderful time of the year"
- 23: why Alphafemme?
- 17: femme (in)visibility
- 16: divorce
- 16: if only dreams were real!
- 13: note to my Self, for when she is at some point inevitably lost in the dark again
- 10: tidying up the clutter
- 02: this week's goals: November 2, 2009
October 2009
- 29: a femme without a butch
- 27: anonymity and protecting identity
- 26: in which I welcome mi'lady home and get to practice femme
- 26: this week's goals: October 26, 2009
- 22: I am Femme: A Postscript
- 20: Investigating my identity: I am Femme.
- 18: Fucking in the mirror
- 14: this week's goals: October 12, 2009
- 08: Friday, 10/9 in SF: Heavy Rotation by ArtXX!!!
- 06: this week's goals: October 5, 2009
- 05: mental health day
September 2009
- 28: this week's goals: September 28
- 28: honest scrap
- 23: crash and burn
- 20: new look?
- 18: Liberation
- 15: Dear Internet, if I’m a cis-gendered woman, why does it turn me on to imagine I have a cock? Sincerely, Alphafemme
- 14: though really, the MOST irresistible part of a woman is her hands.
- 13: guess what, people? I LOVE ORGASMS.
- 09: Fall Previews! Or, this is a cop-out blog post because all I do is tell you what I WILL be writing about. As soon as I get my life back.
- 03: where are all the ladies?
August 2009
- 31: birthday treats!
- 24: a NON-family vacation
- 20: I don't want to hurt her, I just want to love her and be loved
- 15: family vacation
- 13: the moments of good
- 10: a hundred thousand pieces
- 07: I feel like a wound-up wind-up toy of sex.
- 04: this post has no direction because I'm too busy to come up with one
July 2009
- 30: occupying power
- 28: I really dislike planning for the future, it stresses me out
- 24: and now I'm an official junkie
- 23: okay, I know these things are silly, but I can't resist…
- 21: drug cocktails!
- 18: procrastinating, because I Hate Packing
- 15: last few nights by the ocean
- 14: my refrigerator, British accents, and weepy drunks
- 13: a little bit of distance
- 10: in which I sound like a spoiled brat
- 09: on the other side of despair
- 08: why I hate my body, or, the joys of PMS
- 07: Positive self-talk and self-care
March 2009
December 2008
November 2008
- 14: Thoughts on Election Day
- 02: The inevitable, accidental, coincidental run-in with the Ex-Girlfriend
October 2008
- 13: Coming Out interview
- 11: National Coming Out Day
- 08: Funny friends
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