Her: I like that you wear the pants in our relationship!
Me: …?
Her: …I mean, I like that I wear the pants, and you wear the skirts. But I like that you wear the pants!
Me: Really?
Her: Yeah! I like it when you boss me around!
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So far this weekend, I have: made strawberry shortcake, supported a friend through a break-up, bought a new sofa, found a small shelf for the bathroom, cooked mirza ghassemi (the eggplants at the market last week were too beautiful to resist), and dozed in the sun while reading.
Tomorrow, we get up bright and early to drive four hours south, to Cambria, where we’ll soak up the sun (assuming it shows itself, which weather reports insist it will), relax, take our minds off of anything regular-life related. We’ll be back late Monday night. I hope you all enjoy your long weekend! I’ll see you on Tuesday.
Look at you. Dominant One! Haha. <3
You know, Q said the same thing to me the other day. I was like, “…I wear the pants?” She says I have the power in our relationship, which is hilarious because I generally let her lead and make the decisions. And yet, when I stopped to think about it, I knew what she meant. It’s kind of hilarious. ;)
J
You know, Q (my Q – aka Mr. Essin’ Em) says something similar a lot. Not so much in a D/s power exchange, but more in that I deal with planning, getting things paid, choosing what we have for dinner, etc. She likes not having to wear those pants, and I like my invisible pants under my skirts :)
Not sure if I should leave a comment for this, but I enjoyed reading this :D Sometimes I think blogs should all have “Like” buttons.