Comments on: bringing sex out of the bedroom http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/ Femme in all its forms. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 23:27:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: bridgeout http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-297 bridgeout Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:57:43 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-297 Hmm... me thinks that after 10 years with my lady it may be time to shake things up abit all over again! :) Hmm… me thinks that after 10 years with my lady it may be time to shake things up abit all over again! :)

]]> By: ladybrettashley http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-296 ladybrettashley Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:15:56 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-296 yes, yes, yes! i've been thinking about this a lot recently. in large part because we've had an unexpected family/roommate situation for a while now, which puts a near-complete damper on spontaneity (which is ending soon - woo hoo!). anyhow, yes, i think i agree with all of that, and i think that is super important. also, that is such a great characterization of that just-strated-dating thing (and the why it has to be temporary)! yes, yes, yes!

i’ve been thinking about this a lot recently. in large part because we’ve had an unexpected family/roommate situation for a while now, which puts a near-complete damper on spontaneity (which is ending soon – woo hoo!). anyhow, yes, i think i agree with all of that, and i think that is super important.

also, that is such a great characterization of that just-strated-dating thing (and the why it has to be temporary)!

]]> By: Blazer http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-295 Blazer Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:48:16 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-295 I really like your whole take on this. The idea of making sure sexual intimacy is always an intregral part of the relationship is a step in building a life together that rarely gets enough attention. I really like your whole take on this. The idea of making sure sexual intimacy is always an intregral part of the relationship is a step in building a life together that rarely gets enough attention.

]]> By: deviantdyke http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-294 deviantdyke Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:01:34 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-294 Dressed in Garters and heels while cooking dinner. Well I'm certain that would get some butches wheels running no matter what. Great idea! (totally going to use it) Dressed in Garters and heels while cooking dinner. Well I’m certain that would get some butches wheels running no matter what. Great idea! (totally going to use it)

]]> By: Jen http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-293 Jen Fri, 18 Dec 2009 14:03:37 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-293 This was perfect. So true. This was perfect. So true.

]]> By: G http://alphafemme.net/2009/12/17/bringing-sex-out-of-the-bedroom/comment-page-1/#comment-292 G Fri, 18 Dec 2009 04:00:46 +0000 http://alphafemme.net/?p=322#comment-292 Such a great post. I really identified with your statement of "when I’m tired and stressed and anxious and the thought of needing to find the momentum to get from 0 to 60 is daunting." I know for me, a big stumbling block has sometimes been the fact that I'm a very intense person. I like to do things at full throttle. If I feel like I can't get there for whatever reason (not as much time as I'd like, fatigue, feeling distracted), I'm not as open to the idea. But getting to the point where I could start around 45, that sounds pretty damn good. Thanks for this. Such a great post.

I really identified with your statement of “when I’m tired and stressed and anxious and the thought of needing to find the momentum to get from 0 to 60 is daunting.” I know for me, a big stumbling block has sometimes been the fact that I’m a very intense person. I like to do things at full throttle. If I feel like I can’t get there for whatever reason (not as much time as I’d like, fatigue, feeling distracted), I’m not as open to the idea. But getting to the point where I could start around 45, that sounds pretty damn good.

Thanks for this.

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